Valentine's Day Where Did That Come From?

Just as soon as the stores put away their Christmas merchandise, out comes the Valentines Day items even though Valentines is still more than six weeks away. I dont know why, but it always takes me by surprise to see Valentines Day merchandise so soon after Christmas. Ive always wondered where Valentines Day came from, and under those circumstances, a person could be forgiven for thinking it was invented to create more business when Christmas is over. But no, after a little research, I discovered that Valentines is not a holiday that was invented by greeting card companies to sell more greeting cards or by candy companies to sell more candy or by florists to sell more roses. Valentines Day actually started more than , years ago. According to legend, Valentine was a priest who defied the orders of the Roman emperor Claudius and continued to perform marriages. It seems that Claudius realized no young men wanted to join his army because they didnt want to leave their wives and sweethearts. When it was discovered that Valentine was still performing marriages in secret, he was sentenced to death. Valentine allegedly cured the jailers daughter of blindness, and on the night before his execution, sent a note to her signed from your Valentine. He reportedly died on Feb. , A.D. In A.D., February was named by Pope Gelasius to honor St. Valentine. The first Valentines are credited to Charles, Duke of Orleans, who was imprisoned in the Tower of London during the s where he wrote romantic verses that he sent to his wife. A woman named Esther Howland is credited with sending the first Valentine in the United States. The United States Postal Service is credited with advancing the popularity of sending Valentines when the penny postcard was introduced in the mid s. Before that, sending mail was too expensive for the average person, because at the time, the person who RECEIVED the letter paid the postage and not the person who SENT the letter. Personally, Im thankful its not that way today. Can you imagine paying the postage to receive your Valentines? In days gone by, Valentines were hand-painted cards decorated with lace and feathers and sequins. I dont know about anybody else, but if I were going to hand paint a Valentine and decorate it with lace and feathers and sequins, I wouldnt go to all that work for just anybody. Nowadays, however, Valentines cards are mass produced in thousands of designs and sizes large ones and small ones; serious ones and silly ones; inexpensive ones and expensive ones. The variety of Valentines cards is overwhelming and, as far as Im concerned, rather unnecessary. I mean, how many Valentines cards does one person need to buy? Spouse? Parents? Siblings? Second and third cousins? The teacher you had in fifth grade? The lady who cuts your hair? The grocery store clerk who tallied up your last purchase? The man who stopped his car so you could make it through the crosswalk without being run over? And what about the Valentines merchandise? The candy, the posters, the teddy bears sporting a red heart that says Be Mine, socks with little red hearts all over them, heart-shaped rings, necklaces and earrings, and the list goes on and on. I wonder what the real St. Valentine would think of the cards and the candy and the jewelry and whatever else? Then again, maybe the real St. Valentine would be delighted by this turn of events. After all, its been more than , years since he died, but every Feb. , people are still celebrating Valentines Day. And that puts giving Valentines into a whole new perspective, doesnt it.